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Let’s Be Real

Preventing underage drinking requires more than “having the talk.”

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Where Do I Start?

The first step in talking to our kids about underage drinking doesn’t involve our kids at all.

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A New Way Forward

Building a relationship is a unique and powerful way for us to connect with our kids.

Relationships are Key

Levels Of Listening

In some ways, listening is the most powerful tool we have for preventing underage drinking.

3 Levels of Listening

How To Be Real

Ideas for deeper connections. Believe, Realize, Examine, Always, Listen.

Get Real to Connect

Stages of Parenting Stage 1 Stage 2 Stage 3

Understanding the Stages of Parenting

Putting It Into Practice

Conversations have to be relevant, and relevance can't be scheduled.

Recognize Opportunities

Let’s Be Real

Preventing underage drinking requires more than “having the talk.”

We can’t sit our kids down and say, “Don’t drink until you’re of legal drinking age,” and leave it at that. It’s not that simple.

We also know that each child is different.

What works for one might not work for another. There is no one-size-fits-all formula for preventing underage drinking. For every parent, it’s a custom job, requiring the love, influence and experience only you have with your children.

This guide won’t preach.

It won’t prescribe a step-by-step plan for success. The goal is simply to offer some practical, ongoing strategies for having deeper, more meaningful conversations about alcohol with your children – no matter how old they are.

Let’s get started.


“There are times, many times, when a quiet, loving, reconnection with a child is more effective than a consequence or punishment.”
Holly Bennett and Teresa Pitman, Canadian authors and journalists for Today’s Parent Magazine.


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